The moment this summer when I felt the most relief (and the most tangible sense of reality for my impending move) was when I found out I had a dorm room. My mom claims this is the moment when she stopped waking up in a panic in the middle of the night, and, I'll confess, I also slept much better after clearing this hurdle. Now that I'm here I'm doubly glad about this. My room is small and I mostly ignore the 17-19 year olds in the hallway and dining hall, but I have a couple of new international friends who have not yet found a place to live and are entirely focused on that. I can only imagine; the living situation was at the top of my mind, but I got to sit in my familiar home surroundings and contemplate it. Being here and staying in someone else's space that has to be temporary would be disquieting at best. That is among the highest on my list of blessings this week.
Also at the top of my list this week are the new amazing people with whom I find myself surrounded. I have new friends from Norway, South Africa, Brazil, Canada, Spain, Argentina, the Netherlands, and other parts of the US. Our commonality is that we're all International Students, so we're almost all studying different things (I have yet to meet anyone else doing literature), we're different ages, and we have very different backgrounds. All of that acknowledged, more than once this week someone has commented on the similarities we've found. I've always known that the best part of travel is the understanding that can be gained of other cultures, and that has been brought forcibly to my attention this week. When your goal is understanding and friendship, it's much easier to see the things we all share as humans and to treasure the unique ideas that different people bring. This is why it's always been so important to me to travel with my students and why I feel so lucky to have this experience now.
